1．        在美国I love u这三个字我可以对无数人说，但是实际上也就那么一两个人会让我是觉得真心地说。所以我行为上西方化，内心确是很中国化。

2．        为什么呢？爱是要行动表现的，而不是要用说的。我不是木头，我能感受。

3．        对于学历和学术，我是很不屑的，而我现在却在默默地追求这些东西，形式上我很重视，思想上很鄙视。

4．        我会学我们家猫叫，她也会学我叫。

5．        如果我很有钱的话，我会在街上看到流浪猫都统统收留带回家。

6．        I am a potty-mouth.(我会讲脏话)

7．        以前以为在美国读书论文不可能拿满分，但是我真的拿过100分耶。

8．        我转专业了，现在我正式宣布我的专业：主修传播副修商科。

9．        关于学习能力，可以这样讲，越是要求我考高分我就越有抵触情绪就越不想学，所以在学校的时候大部分科目我都只付出80%的努力。而我自己很喜欢学的东西，我会自己逼自己多看多学。

10．     我很讨厌那种全班只给出一个A成绩的教授，自以为自己的课看起来很屌，实际上是参杂了乘机报复和充分显示下自己有多权威的心态。

11．     以上同样适用于任何那种有点小权威就喜欢给别人制造不便和痛苦并且以此为乐的人，十分鄙视。

12．     我会给自己治病。

13．     我最胖的时候也不会超过100斤。

14．     有的时候我会把自己打扮的跟明星出席记者会一样，有时候我就会很邋遢，睡裤加小背心就出门。

15．     在我20岁以前我已经找到了我的人生伴侣。在此之前我从未有过正式的中国男友。

16．     虽然我外表看起来很开朗也比较开放，但是遇上稍微有点吸引力的男生，我是会躲得越远越好的那种人。

17．     会让我躲得越远越好的人也不可能成为我丈夫。

18．     在我20岁的时候我离开了中国，来到美国。

19．     我的一颗门牙在小学四年纪的时候被撞断掉半根，在我17岁的时候终于可以覆盖上一颗漂亮的、完整的烤瓷牙。（哈哈，我够真诚吧？）在此以前我从未自信地认为我是个美女。

20．     我在三个月内突破从哑巴英语到自如地、流利地掌握英语口语，至今引以为豪。

21．      现在我居住在美国旧金山，在此之前我在芝加哥度过了为时两年多的快乐时光。

22．     我没有国内的高中文凭，我也不觉得需要为此蒙羞去遮掩。

23．     我至今比较痛恨我高中为时不到两年的时光，所以脑海中残存的高中记忆非常有限。

24．     让我痛和恨的过去，我比较不太会记住 （为什么要记住？）。

25．     我是一个有信仰的人。在我有生之年我一定会皈依。

26．     有时候发现过去的自己很孤傲，不可一世，甚至固执，会厌恶过去的自己。现在的性格已经改变了很多。

27．     总体上，我是一个越来越快乐的人，也会寻找快乐。但是快乐的基础不是金钱、身份、权利等等决定的， 绝对不是！

28．     目前我的总成绩平均分GPA 是3.84（满分为4）。在拿到第一个B成绩的时候觉得这个世界上其实还有很多比拿A更重要更美好的事情。

29．     在30岁之前我要买一幢房子，不是给自己买的，是为父母。

30．     吴瑕，向怡霏，杨亚文，还有其他看到这里的人，你还有点良心的话就为了我也写一写关于你自己的至少15件事情。哈哈。。。放心，等我到30岁的时候我会写300件

The Ultimate People Person

It is most essential that you recognize that you are a charismatic leader who loves to achieve at the highest level. People just love to be in your presence. Your creativity is getting other people to do what you want or envision.

You are almost always the center of attention. As you walk down a corridor at work, you are constantly bantering and chatting with others that you meet. If you are on a team or doing a project, you are the spontaneous motivator and communications leader. Everyone knows and recognizes your energetic and enthusiastic direction. Your networking with others reaches far and wide. You are the ultimate politician.

Your manner is always extremely positive and confident. When everyone else is feeling discouraged, you provide an individual and group spark that rekindles inspiration and rejuvenates excitement to continue forward. Your threshold for positive leadership is extremely high. In fact, the worse the situation, the more you thrive on it. You're like a cat with nine lives.

Dynamic Activity

Along with that, you are an extremely active person, moving quickly from one person to another, one group of people to another or from one task to another. You must always be doing, moving, motivating and/or talking. That is why your favorite ways of achieving are through focused doing and direct dialogue. You innately organize others, and when push comes to shove, you can keep them focused and working.

You rarely do the details or grunt work. However, when you have to do them to meet a deadline or drive others to follow, you don't let anyone try to stop you. If they continue to attempt to stop you, you force them to stay out of your way. You shut everything and everyone else out and finish what needs to be done, no matter what the cost to you or to others. When the tasks or project are completed, then it's time to really celebrate with others!

How You Learn

You are a dynamic, multi-sensory learner. You learn best when you're participating in an experience and are having an ongoing discussion about what is happening and how you're feeling. "Doing with dialogue" cements learning for you. You learn very easily if you're in a small group setting that allows constant interaction. However, as the deadline for learning results approaches, you have an uncanny ability to organize yourself, concentrate and rise to the occasion.

You don't like to focus on details or facts without being shown the complete understanding of the whole or at least an affinity as to how this detail enlivens subject or tasks at hand. A boring and stiff supervisor or teacher creates motivational problems for you. However, if straight facts and dry details are embellished by a boss's or teacher's personal anecdotes or jokes, then these associations trigger your memory and motivation to work. Just memorizing or doing something, particularly if it doesn't have any meaning or pragmatic application for you, means you have to concentrate and focus over a longer period of time than you usually like to do. But, at the last minute, you can do it.

The Bottom Line

Remember, when the opportunity presents itself, and it usually does, you are number one, not just in your eyes, but in the eyes of others. Also, remember what gets you there: your positive, open and creative communicative style that makes everyone an important person in your presence.